Reflections of 2009 - 20 Questions for you
20 Questions for New Year's Eve Reflection
A new year is a great time to reset your internal clocks, re-calibrate your settings, and re-chart your course. There’s something encouraging and natural about using a fresh calendar page to make new goals in your life, which is why new year’s resolutions are so popular.
But made in haste, resolutions can be pointless at best, discouraging and depressing at worst. When they’re vague, broad, and unreachable, you’re almost setting yourself up for failure. But when they’re specific, productive, and attainable, resolutions can truly be an ebenezer in your life for some healthy changes.
I’m in favor on new year’s resolutions – but why not also use the turn of the clock to reflect on this past year? Before deciding on how you want 2010 to be different than 09, take a moment with your journal and answer some – or all – of these questions.
These questions can be a catalyst for digging deeper into personal reflection, or they can be icebreakers between you and your spouse for a New Year’s Eve conversation. However you want to use them – use them to your benefit.
Reflection Questions for 2009
1. What was the single best thing that happened this past year?
2. What was the single most challenging thing that happened?
3. What was an unexpected joy this past year?
4. What was an unexpected obstacle?
5. Pick three words to describe 2009.
6. Pick three words your spouse would use to describe your 2009 (don’t ask them; guess based on how you think your spouse sees you).
7. Pick three words your spouse would use to describe their 2009 (again, without asking).
8. What were the best books you read this year?
9. With whom were your most valuable relationships?
10. What was your biggest personal change from January to December of this past year?
11. In what way(s) did you grow emotionally?
12. In what way(s) did you grow spiritually?
13. In what way(s) did you grow physically?
14. In what way(s) did you grow in your relationships with others?
15. What was the most enjoyable area of managing your home?
16. What was your most challenging area of home management?
17. What was your single biggest time waster in your life this past year?
18. What was the best way you used your time this past year?
19. What was the biggest thing you learned this past year?
20. Create a phrase or statement that describes 2009 for you.
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If you'd like to print this list, head to Simple Mom for a free PDF download. And after evaluating these questions, head to the blog tomorrow to find questions to help you plan your goals for 2010.
What are your plans for New Year’s Eve?
by Tsh
Picture from John Haslam (Thank you!)
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Labels: daily grind, end of 2009
Random Thoughts of 2009
1. Do you find it gross to share drinks with family? Friends?
Gross? Not really - but I would prefer that each of us have our own, unless we're talking about James. Seriously, would I find it gross sharing a drink with my husband?? Nope.
2. What have you learned this year? (You didn't see a question of that weight coming, did you? At least not for #2.)
I've learned that sometimes it doesn't matter how hard you want something or try for something, someone else is going to put in half the time or half the effort, and still get it.
3. When do you dismantle the Christmas decorations?
Around the 1st. Makes it easy when you don't put up much.
4. Something you wish to accomplish before the end of 2009 is:
Well, since that's in a day, I'm going for nothing. Staying alive? :-)
5. How do you feel about winter (after Christmas)?
Winter is not my favorite month. However, if I have to chose being cold or being hot (aka summer), then I'll chose Winter.
6. Have you participated in after-Christmas sales?
I have not.
7. Do you have plans for New Year's Eve?
My plans include staying awake! I don't know what James & I will do.
8. Is there anything special awaiting you in January?
Just a new year!
9. If your life this year was a movie, what category or genre would it be? (Romance, Comedy, Drama, Thriller, Suspense, Farcical, etc.)
It would be a little of all - Linda said a Dramacomedy or something similar to that.
10. How much time per day do you spend blogging? Please do not lie. I will know.
Too much time on the computer, in general. I don't spend too much time blogging or even reading blogs anymore.
11. Who runs your household?
This is a bad question, Linda. (I'm agreeing with her - she said it was a bad question - why did she ask?) I don't know how to answer that.
12. Share one hope/dream for 2010.
I don't usually do hopes/dreams. I don't know why - it's sorta bothered me over the years, but not enough to become a dreamer/hoper (not to be confused with a hopper). I am enjoying a season of hearing God speak to me and I long for that season to continue.
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Psalm 103
Psalm 103 (NLT)
A psalm of David.
1 Let all that I am praise the LORD;
with my whole heart, I will praise his holy name.
2 Let all that I am praise the LORD;
may I never forget the good things he does for me.
3 He forgives all my sins
and heals all my diseases.
4 He redeems me from death
and crowns me with love and tender mercies.
5 He fills my life with good things.
My youth is renewed like the eagle’s!
6 The LORD gives righteousness
and justice to all who are treated unfairly.
7 He revealed his character to Moses
and his deeds to the people of Israel.
8 The LORD is compassionate and merciful,
slow to get angry and filled with unfailing love.
9 He will not constantly accuse us,
nor remain angry forever.
10 He does not punish us for all our sins;
he does not deal harshly with us, as we deserve.
11 For his unfailing love toward those who fear him
is as great as the height of the heavens above the earth.
12 He has removed our sins as far from us
as the east is from the west.
13 The LORD is like a father to his children,
tender and compassionate to those who fear him.
14 For he knows how weak we are;
he remembers we are only dust.
15 Our days on earth are like grass;
like wildflowers, we bloom and die.
16 The wind blows, and we are gone—
as though we had never been here.
17 But the love of the LORD remains forever
with those who fear him.
His salvation extends to the children’s children
18 of those who are faithful to his covenant,
of those who obey his commandments!
19 The LORD has made the heavens his throne;
from there he rules over everything.
20 Praise the LORD, you angels,
you mighty ones who carry out his plans,
listening for each of his commands.
21 Yes, praise the LORD, you armies of angels
who serve him and do his will!
22 Praise the LORD, everything he has created,
everything in all his kingdom.
Let all that I am praise the LORD.
Reveal yourself to me Lord! Thank you for your mercy. I will praise you with all that I have and all that I am.
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One True God
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There is a Love
Because someone needs to know --
There is a love that
extends to the breadth,
descends to the depths,
ascends to the heights,
and transcends all
that all our hearts can ever imagine.
May Christ through your faith [actually] dwell (settle down, abide, make His permanent home) in your hearts! May you be rooted deep in love and founded securely on love, That you may have the power and be strong to apprehend and grasp with all the saints [God?s devoted people, the experience of that love] what is the breadth and length and height and depth [of it]; [That you may really come] to know [practically, through experience for yourselves] the love of Christ, which far surpasses mere knowledge [without experience]; that you may be filled [through all your being] unto all the fullness of God [may have the richest measure of the divine Presence, and become a body wholly filled and flooded with God Himself]! Ephesians 3:17-19 AMP
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Final day in the mission field
I've certainly had my share of struggles with addictions and I was asked to pray with him. When I started praying for him, the Spirit took hold and I was a powerful prayer warrior for this man. Not because of my feeble words, but because of His mighty words. He had to sense the presence of the Holy Spirit like I did because we were both weeping when the prayer was over.
It was one of the most powerful moments with God that I've ever had and trying to put it into words is almost impossible. I was so humbled and grateful to be used by Him -- throughout the whole trip -- but in particularly at this moment.
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Cake Wrecks: Ho Ho Horrors and more!
I'm telling you because my family & I lost everything we owned in a housefire when I was 11, but we did NOT lost each other, unlike this family....I know times are tight this year for you and for everyone, however, if we each give a little ($1) it can potentially add up to a lot. Will you give?
(Even if you can't give, you should take a daily look at Cake Wrecks. It's good stuff!)
From Cake Wrecks:
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Journal Entry - Last day in India
Overwhelmed by the power of the Holy Spirit working in me. Praise the Lord for the anointing and the knowledge of how I want to live in Him. God is good indeed :-)Amen!
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India - the fourth day in the mission field
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40 Loaves by C.D. Baker
“Why am I so bored with Jesus?”
“Why are Christians so hard for me to like?”
There are many questions we’re not supposed to ask when playing by the religious rules. It makes people uncomfortable. So why is it that Jesus invited questions and even asked some of them himself? What is it that you’re afraid to ask God? It’s a risky prospect to begin asking–but far riskier to continue simply trying to get by without knowing. Author C. D. Baker asked himself 40 soul-searching questions which started a conversation in his heart and ultimately showed him more about God than He ever expected.
Can we become more honest with who we really are and find who God says He really is at the same time? Come indulge yourself in daily readings with an honest exploration of your secret fears and thoughts, and know that you will always be welcomed in God’s unconditional love.
Search me, O God … and know my anxious thoughts.
–Psalm 139:23 NIV
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Labels: crema, Multnomah Books, the scoop
Can you fill me?
We've gone on a short road trip. I'm not happy with....my hair, my outfit, my bra (hello honesty), my shoes, what I have packed to wear and I left my tennis shoes in my car. We're going to be schlepping all over the place and I have no tennis shoes to wear. What was I thinking? Throughout the short weekend, I keep talking to my myself...Here's the gist of what I'm saying:
You're inadequate. Whatever you're wearing and brought to wear isn't "cute". How will you do your hair without styling products? Why didn't you bring those? Did he just look at another woman? Are you sure you're losing weight? You look heavy in those mirrors. Should you be eating that? Why can't he just tell me what I need to hear?On and on I go. I've now worked myself into such a tithy and I want someone to make it better. So, naturally I go to James. (This is going to work out well.)
Do you still find me attractive? Do you think I'm pretty? Can you ever answer any of these questions adequately enough to take away all of my insecurities and doubt? I need you to fill me up.The next day at Sunday school I'm sharing all of this with my class and I talk about how he just couldn't seem to tell me what I needed to hear and would it be too much for him to affirm me?
We've been working through Beth Moore's Measureless Love. Beth (she's my BFF so I can call her Beth) talks about who we're measuring up to, who we're measuring God up to and who we're measuring up for. That person we're measuring up for (Hi James) will never be able to fill us up and keep us full like Jesus will. If I'm not Jesus full, then I'll be desperately trying to get everyone else to fill me up. (ouch) If God is showing you something about yourself (sometimes it's over and over and over), then He's wanting you to kiss it goodbye! Goodbye insecurities and fear and self doubt and condemnation!
When we had a few minutes alone, I apologized to James for putting him in a position he was never going to be able to fill. (Of course, he had no idea how upset I had been!) Only God can fill me up. Only He can be the One who can give me total and unconditional love. I never have to wonder how He feels about me.
Will today be the day that I finally allow God to fill my cup with all the fullness of God? Will today be the day that I grasp that if God doesn't condemn me, then who am I to condemn myself?
Romans 8:1
and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.
Eph. 3:19
Praise You Father for not condemning me. Thank you for allowing me to come to You when I start doubting myself. You will fill me up Your fullness and all I have to do is ask. I empty myself of my sinful nature and ways, pride, idolatry, condemnation, of the need to please everyone for my own sake, for looking for constant affirmation from others who can't possibly give me what I need way down in the marrow of my soul. I thank you for allowing me to say this prayer to you throughout the day or whenever I feel condemnation rising up. Fill my cup, Lord. I want to be full of You and not me. ~ Amen
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Labels: 5:16, beth moore, crema, measureless love, scripture
Lions and tigers and bears, oh my!
by Sophie - December 14, 2009
That's some mighty good wisdom, isn't it, girls? Yes, it is!
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Labels: beth moore, crema, random
Eyewitness Blog Tour
About the book:
About the author:
1. The gospel stories have existed for some two thousand years. Why put them chronologically together now?
If you would like to have Frank speak to your group, church, or writers conference, click here.
*I received a free copy of this book in exchange for posting information on my blog.
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Put off the Old and Put on the New
From the journal:
We put off the old and put on the new-
put on humility (James 4:6).
Help me to put off my critical nature (Galatians 5:15)--and
put on kindness (Colossians 3:12).
Help me to put off lack of love (John 4:7, 8, 20)--and
put on unconditional love (John 15:12).
Help me to put off worry (John 14:1a)---and
put on faith and trust in God (John 14:1b).
Help me to put off impatience (James 1:2-4)--and
put on patience (Hebrews 10:36).
Help me to put off unforgiveness (Mark 11:26)--and
put on forgiveness (Colossians 3:13).
Help me to put off my temper (Proverbs 25:28)--and
put on self-control (Proverbs 16:23).
Help me put off unbelief (Hebrews 3:12)--and
put on faith (Hebrews 11:1, 6).
Help me put off neglect of Bible study (2 Timothy 3:14-17)--and
put on Bible study, meditation (Psalm 1:2).
Help me put off lack of burden for the lost (Matthew 9:36-38)--and
put on compassion, witnessing (Acts 1:8).
Help me put off lies and exaggerations (Ephesians 3:25)--and
put on speaking the truth (Zechariah 8: 16).
Help me put off prayerlessness (l Samuel 12:23)--and
put on praying (I Thessalonians 5:17).
Help me put off procrastination (Proverbs 10:5)--and
put on diligence (Proverbs 27:1).
Help me put off gluttony (Proverbs 23:21)--and
put on discipline (I Corinthians 9:27).
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Hearts at Home
Their Black Friday sale has been extended to the week of December 7-11. Shop in the convenience of your own home and receive an unprecedented 25% off all of Hearts books and merchandise. They have great gifts for everyone in your family.
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A Christmas Meme!
Here goes.
1. Eggnog or Hot Chocolate? I like both but I'll pick hot chocolate, especially when it's extra creamy and maybe some marshmallows!
2. Does Santa wrap presents or just sit them under the tree? I don't remember. I think Santa might switch things up depending on the time.
3. Colored lights on tree/house or white? I like colored lights but white lights are much easier.
4. Do you hang mistletoe? Let me answer it this way - two teenage daughters with boyfriends. Moving on.
5. When do you put your decorations up? I used to put things up on Thanksgiving. but sometimes I don't put anything up. But, tomorrow after church, we're decorating.
6. What is your favorite holiday dish? Cheese straws, sausage balls and fruitcake cookies that my grandmother makes :-).
7. Favorite Holiday memory as a child? I always loved the magic of Christmas and waking up in the morning to Santa having arrived. I loved the anticipation while we waited for everyone to wake up before we could even see what Santa had brought.
8. When and how did you learn the truth about Santa? I think I was in 3rd grade and we were riding the bus home. One of my brother's friends told me and I was devastated. My brother, who wasn't usually nice to me, said that he had known for a while but he didn't want me finding out.
9. Do you open a gift on Christmas Eve? Yes!
10. How do you decorate your Christmas tree? Whatever lands on the tree is how it's decorated.
11. Snow! Love it or Dread it? Snow is much better appreciated from afar. When we lived in Seattle, we'd go play in the snow and I found I enjoyed the hot chocolate in the warmth of the car more.
12. Can you ice skate? NO!
13. Do you remember your favorite gift? My mom has always made Christmas so special. It's hard to remember one certain Christmas and gift.
14. What’s the most important thing about the Holidays for you? JESUS! I want to make sure my girls are celebrating the birth of Jesus.
15. What is your favorite Holiday Dessert? I don't have just one favorite :-).
16. What is your favorite holiday tradition? The girls are older now but when they were younger, I would love to gather them up, read Twas the Night Before Christmas and the story of Jesus' birth. After the stories, we'd let them open up one present and then get everything ready for Santa!
17. What tops your tree? An angel.
18. Which do you prefer giving or receiving? I give much better than I receive. But, who doesn't love receiving gifts?
19. Candy Canes: Yuck or Yum? I'm Switzerland when it comes to candy canes. Totally neutral. (I'm keeping Robyn's answer.)
20. Favorite Christmas Show? A Christmas Story :-)
21. Saddest Christmas Song? One that goes on and on??
22. What is your favorite Christmas Song? Casting Crowns, While You Were Sleeping.
If you decide to participate, let me know and I'll pop on over (just like Robyn said she'd do!).
MERRY CHRISTMAS my dear friends.
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Labels: Christmas, daily grind, meme